I walked around the server after hearing how friendly it was. Tried it out with my homie. I went in with a friend. We walked around took food from public marked signs says free to take. I walked alot about 100-400 blocks and found some griefed houses that looked nice. I wandered off away from my friend and was banned for griefing. I believe this was an error.
Also I believe I had posted a topic about this and it was removed. I'm not sure though.