Why was i banned?

[anonny]

Redhawk, please do as Lady asks. She is very busy taking care of the server and everyone on it and has no time for these kinds of antics. If your apology was genuine then you would comply to what is being asked of you. I suggest that you play along and grasp this rare opportunity of a second chance since you are already on very thin ice on this occasion.

PS: Lady B. rocks!

[Stealthy_Red]

I know she's awesome and i do want a second chance and i really would but my house is like impossible to move :/ i don't know what to do

[Anteramian]

RedHawk,

I want to make it clear that I have no personal vendetta against you. I hate to see anyone banned knowing how much work and effort you put into your build. You were helpful to new members as well. I feel the obligatory need to stress the importance on respect to others on the server. Zedwork has demonstrated an overwhelmingly helpful, supportive and respectful environment.

My comments to you were intended to help you avoid issues with other members. I wanted everyone to play in a peaceful and supportive environment. Your public comment saying "i told him [Anteramian] that i don't take what he says seriously" was highly disrespectful, other new members saw that message and I can't help but think they interperted it as acceptable behavior. I had many other members pvt msg me regarding both your actions towards them and your response to me in my attempt to resolve the issue. That is why I became upset.

It is never my intent to defame or ridicule another player and you were reported as the standards upheld by the server were purposely, repeatedly and utterly ignored with intentional disrespect for our standards and players.

I am sure that you are a gracious and caring person, I just wish that reflected in your online persona.

Moving a house is a daunting task, I have done it several times. I am sure that with a few personal apologies and a friendly return to the server you would find a community willing to assist you in that massive endeavor. In addition I was always excited to move because that meant there were entirely new riches to be found under my new claims! I am willing to assist you in getting started if you wish.

I have no regrets about reporting you and supporting the ongoing mission of Zedwork, therefore I do not retract my initial report of misbehavior and disrespect. I ask however that you set personal feelings aside and join us. Help us build the most supportive and friendly community we can. I know you can, you are driven, motivated, charitable and knowledgeable about the game and you have demonstrated that as well.

My only request would be that you be aware of others who contribute to the game - both imaginatively and financially. Be humble and know that you aren't the sole pillar that holds things together. Showcase your ability to acclimate new players and be a model for what Zedwork stands for. Keep any personal feelings no matter how adverse to the community to yourself.

Again I value all people, be it in online persona or face to face meeting. We may not all agree but holding your tongue at times is the most appropriate behavior - albeit painful!

In summation I would like to remind you that many people have asked where you have been. That alone speaks volumes to your contribution to our community. Please return and consider my requests without defense. I mean no harm. I want you to become a vital contributor and mentor within Zedwork. This has to change as Lady has stated with a fundamental change in your behavior. A very easy change indeed, as I know you are smart and capable.

Regards,
Jake (Anteramian)

P.S. hope to see you soon.

[Stealthy_Red]

Thanks for that post Anter ^_^
I guess the only reason i don't want to move is that if people actually want me to physically move that far away from them that i won't even be able to be around them, It bothers and confuses me that they are also this accepting to have me back. i don't really have any big issues with moving my house otherwise that it's built on water and on top of a cavern (which the basement is in it) But still, I'll move i guess :/
Thanks everyone
-RedHawK

[Stealthy_Red]

Oh, I also forgot to say,
I'm extremely sorry for what i said to you, Ant, And i would like to see you on zedwork again. i can't come up with an extremely post like yours, but i want you to know that i try to respect others and that i didn't mean it. i can make excuses and say i had a bad day and honestly, i don't remember. all that matters is that i need to have a better attitude, which i now have
I will move my house if it's nessecary.
Thanks for letting me know that people miss me

P.S LADY B. I apologize to you as well. plz unban me?
-RedHawK

[LadyBountiful]

You have the offer from Jake to help you move. The move is necessary in order to deflame the situation. You have had time to think about your behaviour and how it impacts on other players. Please arrange a time with Jake to move, and I will unban you. Any repetition of your behaviour towards others will result in an instant ban. That includes inflammatory words, actions and signs. I can offer you a ready made town to inhabit and take over, if you like. It will keep it alive and you may be able to encourage others to live there too. Let me know when you and Jake will meet up. LB

[Stealthy_Red]

I'd rather build my own house and i don't really know where i'm going to move.
Jake, where do you live?

[Anteramian]

RedHawk,

My main house is in Banana. There is a lively community there I am not sure how far from your current region that is. I am available all weekend (June 7th -June8th) to assist if you require. I have several claims spread all over. I would suggest taking Lady's offer to have a ready made town! That sounds exciting. I will check the forum throughout the weekend for a response from you and any await any preparations Lady may need to make regarding your decision.

Regards,
Jake (Anteramian)

[Stealthy_Red]

I have a plan, i don't want a ready made town because i like stuff that i build my self, but i do have a new house plan. i'll need alot of oak wood for it and i need to look around for a region. i understand why you don't want any conflict to happen with me hanging out in chasm8 for awhile longer, but that's going to be difficult with moving. can i please look at regions and collect oak wood? also, thanks for the offer, but i'd rather move myself. it's not that i don't trust you, jake, but i don't really like setting up appointments to move. it's just too complicated
Thanks
-Red

[LadyBountiful]

I suggest that you find the region, collect the wood and store it away from Chasm8. Then make the new build and when it is nearing completion move what stuff you want. You are unbanned. Welcome back. LB